Tulips are blooming, cherry blossoms are peaking, and your parental focus is likely beginning to shift from the school year to the summer ahead. As camp preparations kick into high gear, Opening Day may start to loom larger in your child’s mind. What was once a distant, abstract idea is now a concrete reality. There are packing lists, doctor visits, group chats, and classroom chatter. Whether your child lives the fabled “ten months for two,” or is newly embarking on their camp journey, there is no right way for them to feel. And most of the time, mixed, and big, emotions are present.
As a parent, you may be feeling a range of emotions as well. At the same time, you believe in the power of the camp experience. Camp is increasingly recognized as a rare opportunity for kids to return to “kiddom” – to unplug, be outdoors, have fun, and decompress from the pressures of the school year. While camp can and should be an empowering reset, achieving that requires intentional preparation. Below are a few ways to help set your child, and yourself, up for success.
Validate Nerves & Instill Confidence
Camp nerves are healthy. They demonstrate that a child is processing the upcoming experience and that they feel secure in their home environment. Homesickness, too, is natural, and almost all campers (and staff!) experience a degree of it. Say that to your child simply and clearly.
Validate your child’s feelings, but just as importantly, affirm their readiness. Let them feel your confidence. Communicate that you trust them, believe in their independence, and are excited, not apprehensive, about their experience. Avoid bargaining: “you can always come home,” and instead offer reassurance: “I know you’ll experience so many wonderful things.” Reinforce that an incredible experience filled with growth awaits them, and that counselors and staff are there to help them navigate hard moments.
At the same time, if your child isn’t feeling worried, there’s no need to introduce concern. Focus on the known positives – favorite activities, new friendships, and beloved traditions. Your child will take their emotional cues from you, so lead with calm confidence.
Reflect on Your Child’s School Year
Your kid is still the same kid, even in a different environment. There is more overlap between camp life and school life than meets the eye. Both involve structured days, shared spaces, transitions, responsibilities, constant social interaction, and navigating relationships with a wide range of peers. Reflecting on their school experiences can help you anticipate areas where they may need support, and where they are already equipped to thrive.
Apply school challenges to the camp context. A child who struggles with losing in a classroom game may face similar challenges during camp competitions. Difficulties in group work or recess might translate to unstructured social time at camp. Of course, these behaviors are not inherently causes for concern. However, consider the potential underlying skills, like time-management, persistence through challenging tasks, stamina, etc., to help pinpoint potential camp stressors, and consider how to support those at home before camp begins.
At the same time, help your child recognize their strengths, and use those to build their camp-ready toolkit. If they’ve developed friendships at school, remind them that they already have the skills to do the same at camp. Connecting the dots between successful experiences at home and their positive skills and attributes, empowers your child to see themselves as capable and ready for the unknowns ahead.
Build Camp-Ready Routines
Practicing ways of camp-life at home is key to ensuring success over the summer. Whether it is your child’s first summer or eighth, camp is outside many comfort zones, and requires a great deal of stamina. Feeling comfortable and confident with daily routines frees up brain power and emotional space for kids to demonstrate flexibility and resilience in trickier moments.
If your child often relies on technology before bed or to decompress (iPad, TV, music, etc.), get them hooked on a new camp-approved routine before summer. Have them listen to music on a camp approved device, read, letter-write, draw, or try some other relaxing, tech-free, independent activity. If you are packing your camper with a music device, make sure they know how to use this device! Pre-set a “before bed” playlist or decide on a before bed book or activity. Unsure of what is allowed or typical at your kid’s camp? Ask!
Some other key camp-life routines worth practicing could be cleaning their bedroom before school, greater independence dressing/undressing and with personal hygiene, keeping track of belongings, serving themselves food, etc.
Communicate with Camp
Even if you don’t have any specific concerns, share how your child is feeling about the upcoming summer. If your camp provides intake forms or “confidential” notes, treat them as meaningful opportunities to provide insights, not formalities. Be clear, concise, and honest, keeping in mind that this information is used as an important tool by camp staff.. Share recent developments, stressors, and what helps your child regulate or relax. The more insight staff have, the better they can support your child from day one.
It’s also worth asking how your camp approaches camper support. Some camps now have structured systems, such as Camper Care Teams, that focus on the emotional wellbeing and overall success of campers. If your child may need extra support (during transitions, in social settings, etc.), understand how those plans will be implemented and communicated. By partnering with camp professionals from the start, and trusting their experience, you set the tone for a smoother transition, and open the line of communication for the weeks to come.
Have a Plan for Opening Day
Whether your kid is getting on a bus to camp, or you’re dropping off in person, fast and positive goodbyes are key to helping your child transition to camp. It is normal for this moment to feel a bit awkward. Campers are often nervous and don’t know how to balance meeting peers with family goodbyes. Your goal is to help them step into the experience. Have a plan and keep your time structured: say hello to staff, to peers, and then say a calm, confident goodbye. Avoid lingering. Let counselors handle the settling in. Signal to your camper that you know they are in good hands.
Save reminders for beforehand – goodbyes are not the moment for last-minute instructions. Be mindful of your reactions to details like bus seats or bunk setup or organization; kids are highly attuned to adult emotions. If you have a concern, even something as innocuous as carsickness for the upcoming ride, address it privately with staff. Above all, stay positive. Tell your child how proud you are and how excited you are for this next step. Your confidence will help carry them forward.
Sending your child to camp is an act of trust – in them, in the staff, and in the experience itself. Even for seasoned campers, the home-to-camp transition can bring a complex mix of emotions. With thoughtful preparation, clear communication, and steady confidence, you allow excitement to take the lead over doubt, empowering your child to embrace new challenges and grow.
About the contributor:
Audrey Fleischner is a Director and a Girls Head Counselor at Camp Scatico, a traditional brother-sister sleepaway camp in the Upper Hudson Valley. A 4th generation Scatico director along with her sister, Audrey has never missed a Scatico summer since birth. She holds a Dual Master’s Degree in General Education (1-6) and Students with Disabilities, and she worked as a classroom teacher and sports coach in both independent and public schools in New York City for over a decade. When not at camp, she helps oversee an NYC educational consultancy which she co-founded,BetterEd.
What makes your camp different from others in today’s crowded market?
We eat all of our meals outside right by the lake, under a 100-year-old oak tree – and that really captures a lot of what our camp is. We focus on being outside in a beautiful location, forming strong personal relationships without the barrier of phones and other screens. We have a beautiful sandy beach on a private lake, and nothing beats being in or on the water on a summer day.
We offer more than 30 different activities, and campers get to choose what they do and how they spend their time. Our safe and supportive setting makes us a great place to try new things and meet new people.
We also have an amazing staff. The average age of our counselors is 21, and we don’t have any junior counselors or counselors-in-training. Our staff get to know the kids on a personal level and serve as great role models.
How would you describe the “feeling” of your camp in one sentence?
We are a place where kids can step out of their comfort zone, try new things, and meet new people – all in a safe and supportive setting.
What can a camper gain from a 2–3 week session that might surprise families?
The bonds they form with their cabinmates and counselors, and the memories they make. Campers are part of so many fun and meaningful experiences in such a short time. One of our staff goals is: “Counselors have a positive impact on each camper, such that in 20 years each camper will remember their counselor’s name and their experience at camp” – and we believe we consistently deliver on that.
How do shorter sessions still deliver a “complete” camp experience?
Our session is structured in a very intentional way to maximize the fun in just a few weeks. All campers arrive and depart together, so your child will never make a close friend only to have them leave partway through a session. We offer a wide variety of activities and out-of-camp trips, and we close with intentional activities over the final days that leave a lasting impact – campers go home excited to come back the following summer.
How do you support first-time campers who may not be ready for a full summer?
We have multiple layers of support for first-time campers. Our counselors are specifically trained on integrating new campers, spotting signs of homesickness, and helping kids feel comfortable in an unfamiliar setting. We also have Cabin Heads and a Camp Experience Director whose primary role is supporting the social-emotional wellbeing of our campers and staying in communication with parents.
Parents need support too when sending their child away for the first time – which is why we do a lot of pre-camp information sharing and meetings to set everyone up for success and help parents feel confident trusting us with their child. We also personally call the family of each new camper after the first week to share an update on how their child is doing.
What would you say to a teen who feels like they “missed the window” for camp?
It is never too late to come to summer camp! We have new kids at every age level, and they will almost never be the only new camper in their cabin. Our older campers go on weekly out-of-camp trips and have more autonomy and freedom in their schedule. And since no one has their phone, everyone is on the same level – which makes it surprisingly easy to make new friends.
If you had to describe Kingsley Pines in three words, what would they be, and why?
Safe, supportive, and fun. Being away from the comforts of family, home, and technology can feel intimidating – and we work hard to make that transition as easy as possible. With so many activities, there truly is something for everyone, whether you want to try something brand new or grow your skills in something you already love.
About the contributor:
Dan first set foot in Maine, and at Kingsley Pines in 2005, his first year as a counselor. Over the years he was a Counselor, Campus Head, Program Director, Assistant Director, and now Director. He loves working with campers and staff, and enjoys seeing their growth not only throughout the summer but over multiple years.
He knows from personal experience that camp can be a life changing experience, and 2026 will be his 22nd summer at camp. Dan is actively engaged in the broader summer camp community. He has presented at the world’s largest camp conference and works with the American Camping Association to train new Camp Directors. He lives in Westbrook, Maine with his family.
Camp Winadu, the premier all boys summer camp, has been providing boys a well-rounded traditional camp experience in the Berkshire Mountains since 1927. The camp’s soul is rooted in its values, where all boys can be successful and be their best selves. Every summer brings new Winadu adventures, but a couple things always remain the same – time flies and camp friends become family. Campers are supported by directors Jared and Jill Shapiro & Alissa & Mike Girling who have an unwavering commitment to their campers. As we celebrate summer 100, we are grateful for the opportunity to impact the lives of so many and to continue and build upon the proud legacy that defines Camp Winadu.
In today’s world, where boys face increasing social and academic pressures, what role do you believe camp plays in their overall development?
Camp, especially at Winadu, gives boys the freedom to just be boys. As you noted, the social and academic pressures at home are intense – amplified even more by social media, where every kid is performing their life for an audience. At an all-boys camp, it’s the opposite. There’s no social hierarchy, no pressure to “be cool,” and very little competition. That environment allows boys to become comfortable in their own skin, learn how to communicate, and build confidence through genuine friendships. Without judgment, campers often try things at camp they might never do at home – like belting out a song or dancing wildly at the end-of-meal or rainy day sing-alongs. Those moments, full of laughter and freedom, are exactly what help boys grow.
What truly sets Camp Winadu apart from other all-boys camps?
Winadu is different – and it’s hard to capture in words. The best way to describe it? Our boys come back and finish their experience as campers. We believe it’s the individual attention and care each camper feels, combined with being part of 100 years of one camp family, supported by our staff, leadership team, and Directors. Every new camper is personally met by the Winadu Directors in their home before their first summer, helping them feel known and comfortable even before stepping off the bus. Our program is another difference: while our core values stay the same, no two summers are alike. Campers can expect new energy, fresh ideas, and plenty of surprises. With boys from 18+ states, Winadu is truly a diversified community – another thing that sets us apart.
Winadu is known as a well-rounded traditional summer camp for boys. What types of boys thrive most at Winadu, and what qualities do you hope they take home at the end of the summer?
Great question. We take pride in the well-roundedness of our program, where nearly all boys thrive. The key to thriving at Winadu is openness – being willing to try new things and make lifelong friends. Campers do it all: play basketball, learn to sail, go on hikes, and create projects in our craft shack. Kindness is equally important – boys who are considerate to each other and to the entire Winadu community really shine. We see camp as a partnership with our families, and over the years, our campers grow into young men who embody community, confidence, thoughtfulness, and resilience.
What one tradition or moment at camp captures the heart of Winadu?
Campership! This is our Friday night tradition where the entire camp comes together as one. You truly have to see it to believe it – we even have a short documentary called The History of Campership. The camp sits in the round and recognizes campers for their accomplishments throughout the week. Every Friday, our in-house band kicks things off with a concert, and soon the whole camp is singing and dancing — the energy is electric. Traditions within the tradition include the campers’ favorite: shoulder rides! Campership is also part of our Winadu Circle, our six-value system, with Campership representing caring about others. Friday night celebrates that value, ending the week and starting a new one together as one camp family.
What advice do you have for families considering Winadu for summer 2027?
Visit camp – there’s no better way to understand Winadu than experiencing it firsthand and meeting the people who will be caring for your son. Our in-summer Rookie Days are perfect for this. Rookies and their parents join us on a regular camp day to see the real Winadu in action. Campers eat in the dining hall, explore the lake, meet staff, and get a feel for daily life at camp. Parents tour with a Director, observe activities, and have time to ask questions. Choosing a camp is a multi-year decision, and seeing Winadu in person is truly special.
If you had to describe Camp Winadu in three words, what would they be, and why?
Brotherhood, Heart, Legacy – for almost 100 summers, Winadu has been a place where time stands still, boys focus on friendships, and everyone feels a deep sense of belonging. It’s where songs are sung, memories are made, and a meaningful legacy is lived every summer. Friendships grow into family through shared experiences, and through wins, losses, laughter, and growth, Winadu brothers know they will always have each other.
About the Contributors:
Jared and Jill Shapiro – Owners/Directors Jared’s history with Camp Winadu dates back to 1984 when he began as a camper. He spent 12 consecutive summers as a camper, counselor, group leader. Jill spent her summers growing up at Camp Kippewa. In 2012, Jared and his wife, Jill returned to Winadu. They live in Millburn, NJ and have three sons. Together, they carry on the beauty and traditions of the unique Winadu culture. They met at University of Wisconsin where their two sons, Ethan and Reid currently attend, and Bennett is still a camper at Winadu. As a family they are die-hard Wisconsin Badger fans waiting for their first basketball or football national championship.
Alissa and Mike Girling – Owners/Directors
In 2010, Alissa & Mike started at Winadu. Alissa and Mike met at sleepaway camp in 2002 and they instantly knew that camping was their future together. Alissa (a proud Hoosier) came back to camping after a career as a school guidance counselor and Mike a soccer professional. Alissa is involved in directing all areas of camp but focuses on camper recruitment and communication with camp families to ensure a seamless camp experience. Mike – who wears every hat at Winadu – oversees staffing, food service, maintenance, and ensures that the “behind the scenes” aspects of camp life function smoothly and perfectly. Alissa, Mike, and their daughters Hannah and Emma reside in New City, New York,
We asked Alissa what her favorite Winadu event was – and she has 4 letters ZORK!!! (our camp wide shaving cream fight)
We asked Mike what his favorite Winadu program is – Mike loves World Cup Day (a full day soccer tournament) and of course, his summer all camp birthday party.
Every March, brackets dominate conversations. This year, we are bringing the debate to camp.
Parents often find themselves stuck between two great options.
Coed or single gender?
Full summer or shorter sessions?
Structured schedule or elective based?
The truth is, the question is not which one wins. The question is which one helps your child thrive.
Why These Debates Feel So Big
Choosing a camp is emotional. It feels like a decision about independence, confidence, friendships, and growth all wrapped into one summer. When families compare camp styles, they are usually trying to predict outcomes:
Will my child make friends at camp?
Will they build confidence?
Will they feel comfortable?
Will they grow?
Those are the right questions. But the answer is rarely found in a single feature.
Coed vs Single Gender
Both models create meaningful friendships and personal growth. Coed sleepaway camps mirror real-world social environments and often appeal to families with siblings – including those searching for brother sister camps where kids can attend together. Single gender camps, whether all girls camps or all boys camps, can reduce social pressure and give kids space to explore leadership and identity. The decision often depends on your child’s maturity, comfort level, and personality.
Full Summer vs Shorter Sessions
Full summer programs tend to foster deeper relationships and stronger independence. The personal growth curve is often more dramatic. Shorter camp sessions provide flexibility and can be a strong introduction for first-time campers. The key question: does your child need time to settle in, or do they benefit from shorter bursts of independence?
Elective-Based vs Structured Schedule
Elective-based camps give campers ownership. Choice can build confidence and motivation. Structured camp programs provide exposure to a wide range of camp activities and reduce decision fatigue. Some children flourish when they choose. Others thrive when the framework is set.
The Myth of the “Best” Camp
There is no universal champion. The most beautiful thing about the summer camp world is its variety.
What works for one child may not work for another, even within the same family. The goal is not to win the debate. The goal is alignment.
How to Actually Decide
Instead of asking, “Which summer camp is best?” try asking:
Where does my child feel most comfortable socially?
How do they handle transitions?
Do they need structure or thrive with choice?
What environment brings out their confidence?
The right camp fit feels less like a gamble and more like a thoughtful match. That is what we help families uncover every day.
Final Thoughts
March Madness crowns one champion.
Camp decisions do not. There is no trophy for picking the most popular option. There is only the quiet confidence that comes from knowing your child is exactly where they are meant to be.
If you are unsure which “team” your family belongs on, we would love to help you build your winning lineup.
About the contributor:
Summer 365 is the leading consulting service created by and for parents, driven by a customized, holistic approach to finding the best summer experience for each child and family. Through in-person visits and meetings with camps and programs, our momboss team of experts have insider knowledge on more than 500 top sleepaway camps and summer programs for children and teens ages 7–18. Our service makes it easy for parents to find whatever they’re looking for – whether it’s traditional or specialty sleepaway camp, community service, performing arts, enrichment, wilderness, or language immersion programs.
Indian & Forest Acres Camp, in their 103rd summer, is a traditional summer camp in Fryeburg, Maine, built on community, belonging, and purpose. They believe children grow best when they are truly known – not just by name, but by personality, strengths, and needs.
As brother-sister camps, their camps sit two miles apart but share the same Directors and several facilities. Their program blends athletics, creative arts, outdoor adventure, and meaningful traditions in a structured yet joyful environment. Directors are present and engaged, counselors are carefully selected and mentored, and every camper is supported socially and emotionally throughout the summer.
At Indian & Forest Acres, camp is more than activities filling a schedule. It is a place where children build confidence, form lasting friendships, develop independence, and feel a genuine sense of belonging.
What truly sets Indian & Forest Acres apart, especially for families deciding between a smaller camp and a larger one? How does the brother-sister camp model shape the experience for campers and families?
Indian & Forest Acres sits in the space many families are searching for – large enough to offer depth, tradition, and strong programming, yet small enough for every camper to be truly known and supported by fellow campers, staff, and Directors alike. In bigger camps, children can feel lost in the crowd; in smaller camps, program breadth and tradition may feel limited. At IA/FA, campers experience both personal attention and a wide range of activities, from competitive team traditions to an expansive waterfront and serious riding program. The brother-sister model strengthens this balance. Boys and girls grow in focused environments where confidence builds and social pressure lessens, then come together intentionally for shared experiences like Coed Play, weekly dances, and dedicated Brother/Sister time. The result is independence, meaningful connection, and a sense of belonging within something bigger than themselves.
Are there traditions or moments that really capture the spirit of IA/FA?
We have so many traditions both big and small that encapsulate who we are. Some that come to mind…
It’s a random Thursday evening and you’re walking past our theater, TipTop. Inside, you’ll likely find nearly every camper 13+ from both camps singing their hearts out, rehearsing for that summer’s Coed Play. Last year it was All Shook Up, the summer before Mamma Mia. You can’t help but smile – and want to jump in and join them!
We do Color War differently. Campers stay on the same team for their entire camp career, alongside their siblings and relatives, and if we’re lucky enough to welcome their future children, they’ll be on that same team, too. It creates a powerful sense of legacy, belonging, and pride, with each camper knowing they are a valued member of that team forever.
How does IA/FA support the growth and development of each camper (socially, emotionally, and creatively) throughout their time at camp?
Socially: We recognize every camper for who they are and meet them where they are. Our small, close-knit community allows campers to build genuine friendships and learn to navigate social dynamics in a supportive environment. With just two to three cabins per age group, and an effort to keep bunks together year after year, campers grow up alongside one another, forming bonds that feel like family. Counselors actively guide everyday interactions, modeling teamwork, inclusion, communication, and empathy while helping campers resolve conflicts, advocate for themselves, and build lasting confidence.
Emotionally: There are no rules around emotion at camp, and no expectations for how feelings should look. We help campers learn to regulate and understand their emotions while celebrating them as individuals. Whether it’s trying something new, working through homesickness, or forming a new friendship, campers develop resilience, self-confidence, and a stronger sense of self.
Creatively: Creativity is woven into every part of camp life – in the arts, athletics, outdoor adventure, and performance. Campers are encouraged to explore new interests and express themselves freely, often stepping into roles they might never try at home. Beyond scheduled activities, self-expression shows up in writing and song at Friday Night Services, Campfire, and Friendship Circle, where campers of all ages share how camp has shaped and inspired them.
What’s the best kept secret about Indian & Forest Acres?
We have a few. One is the standard of our riding program – arguably one of the premier programs in the industry. We attract riders of all levels while still offering a well-rounded camp experience. Another is our lake. Although it’s a quick five-minute drive, it feels like a Trip Day every time campers go, spending a full morning or afternoon enjoying everything it offers. We’re the only camp on the lake, and with a cabin right on the water, campers can not only participate in a wide range of activities but even sleep out there with their bunk. And finally, because our lake is offsite, both camps sit on the Saco River, and each has a heated Olympic-style pool. That means three waterfronts for every camper – not something you see every day!
What’s your top three most popular activities?
Lake
Horseback riding
Volleyball
If you had to describe Indian & Forest Acres in three words, what would they be – and why?
Community – Community isn’t just a buzzword; it’s a byproduct of our size and leadership style. Because we are intentionally small, directors know every camper by name, staff know each child as a whole person, and campers connect beyond just their bunk. In larger camps, kids can hide. At IA/FA, they are seen. There is warmth, accountability, and real partnership with families. Older campers feel responsibility for younger ones, traditions span generations, and directors are present, visible, and accessible.
Belonging – If community is our structure, belonging is the feeling. Every camper has a place, is known, and contributes. It looks like a shy camper being gently included, homesickness noticed early, and children valued for who they are – not how athletic or outgoing they may be. Families don’t just want attendance; they want their children to matter. Protecting that culture is a priority for us.
Intentional – Many of the moments campers cherish happen in the ordinary rhythms of camp life – and very little is by accident. We hire staff who align with our values, create programming that builds confidence, and set policies that prioritize safety and growth. From group dynamics to parent communication, we lead with thoughtful intention in everything we do.
About the Contributors:
Melissa Newman- Director- Melissa started at camp when she was 7 years old in Cabin 5 and spent nine summers as a camper at Forest Acres before returning as a counselor and Unit Leader. After completing her undergraduate degree in Psychology at the University of Michigan, she moved to Boston to attend Northeastern University, where she earned her Masters of Science and Certificate of Advanced Graduate Study in School Psychology. Melissa started her career as a School Psychologist in an elementary school in the suburbs of Boston. She left the school setting, moved into a corporate setting and eventually grew to manage a team of 10. Melissa feels her work experience has resulted in the perfect combination for camp: time spent working with kids, parents, and teachers, as well as managing others. More than anything, it has given her the ability to listen first and then react- a practice she considers vital for a leader and strives to maintain daily in this role.
After several years away from camp, Melissa returned to camp in 2024 with her husband, Jeff, and two children, Jordyn and Tate. Leading Indian & Forest Acres Camps has been a lifelong aspiration of hers, and she is so happy to be back spending her summers in Maine and sharing her love for camp during the winter months. Melissa’s favorite aspect of camp is seeing campers come into their own and find their interests, passions, likes, and dislikes. Outside of camp, she lives in Boca Raton, Florida. She loves being able to travel and visit with campers and their families. When she is not traveling or planning for the following summer, Melissa is actively involved in her children’s school and is on the Parent Board, raising funds and planning events for the school community. In her spare time, she enjoys spending time with family and friends, reading, playing Fantasy Football, baking, and cheering on the Michigan Wolverines!
Moe Burness- Assistant Director– Early on in his years at camp, Moe developed a deep love for camp and its traditions. He feels blessed to be able to “live camp” all year round, and it is his profound joy to have the opportunity to give back to a camp that has given him so much since he was 9 years old, as well as pay it forward to campers and counselors for generations to come. Moe came to camp in 1967 as a second-generation camper; his mother and uncle both attended camp in the late 1930s. He was a cabin counselor, Unit Leader, Athletic Director, Program Director, and Head Counselor. Moe is a graduate of Boston College where he proudly created and became the first mascot (The BC Eagle) at the college. When he is not in Maine or on the road visiting our campers and their families as well as meeting prospective camp families, he resides in South Windsor, CT.
For many parents, sending a child to sleepaway camp comes with a mix of emotions – excitement, nerves, stress and lots of worry. But there’s also something else I hear parents admit (sometimes quietly) … relief. Because for the first time all year, their child’s phone will be gone. No negotiating screen limits. No late-night scrolling on the iPad. No constant pull of texts, apps, games and social media. Just seven weeks with the device finally out of reach. In an age of AI and continuous digital connection, this might be the most intentional decision a parent can make.
Every summer, we watch the same moment unfold. The buses pull into camp, girls spill out, hugging friends they haven’t seen in a year, squealing with excitement. Soon after, they hand in their phones and say goodbye to their technology for the summer.
What’s changed, especially in the last few years, is the palpable sense of relief that follows. A collective exhale. Campers have arrived at their safe place – where they can unplug and just be kids. It’s hard to describe what we, as camp directors, witness firsthand: how seven weeks without phones, texts and social media can favorably impact a child’s confidence, friendships and ability to connect with others.
Communication at sleepaway camp is a throwback to an earlier, pre-tech era. Parents send their child away for seven weeks. They are allowed three scheduled 10-minute phone calls (on a landline) and one in-person Visiting Day. Campers write letters home. While parents can catch a glimpse of camp life through photos and Instagram highlights, the real magic of camp – the stuff that truly matters – can’t be captured on a screen.
Discomfort and Detox
Once campers settle in, there can be moments of discomfort without their technology. They may miss scrolling through social media and having entertainment at their fingertips. This sense of “withdrawal” is proof of how deeply phones are woven into everyday life. Today’s sleepaway campers are not just giving up games or videos. They’re stepping away from algorithm-driven content, AI-curated feeds and constant social comparison. The important thing? That discomfort is fleeting. It quickly turns into something else: playing cards with bunkmates, trading jibbitz or sticker beans, reading books (no kindles allowed) or simply sitting on the bunk porch making friendship bracelets and talking about nothing and everything.
Being Present
At Point O’Pines, we talk a lot about being present and appreciating the gift of camp. Without a phone in their hands, there’s nothing to look down at. Instead, campers look up. They notice their beautiful surroundings. They make eye contact with others. They listen longer. Conversations stretch without interruption. Games can last hours instead of minutes.
Without a phone, there is no easy way to “opt out” of the moment. If campers are looking for more, they invent something. They choreograph a silly dance to perform at the talent show – not for TikTok, but just because. If they’re upset, they talk to their counselor, to their friend, to their big camp sister. In a world increasingly shaped by AI – where everything is customized and instantaneous – these types of unfiltered experiences are becoming rare.
Real Social Skills Take Over
Artificial Intelligence is designed to mimic human thinking – learning, predicating, problem-solving and even choosing words for us. And while AI has certainly helped in many areas (including simplifying administrative processes for camp directors!), camp itself remains refreshingly human.
There are no AI shortcuts to building human relationships. When phones and other devices are removed, campers have the time to connect face to face with each other and their counselors to forge bonds and friendships that will carry them through life.
A device-free environment also gives campers the opportunity to navigate the ups and downs of human relationships. I’ve watched campers work through conflict in person, sometimes for the very first time. Instead of texting or crafting the ‘perfect’ response – they sit down, talk it out, and learn how to listen. With guidance from our staff, they face hard moments head-on and grow from them.
The Takeaway
Parents often tell me that when their daughters reunite with their camp friends during the year, phones barely come out. These girls are used to being together – really together – without a screen in between them.
Seven weeks without technology does not mean kids fall behind socially. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. What we see, summer after summer, is that our campers return home more confident, more resilient, and more connected. In an age of AI and constant digital noise, camp gives kids something rare: time, space and the freedom to just be kids. And that’s something no algorithm can replace.
About the contributor:
Nikki Grossman is one of the Directors of Point O’ Pines Camp, an all girls sleepaway camp in the spectacular Adirondack Mountains. At POP, Nikki oversees all aspects of Residential Life – making sure all campers and staff are happy, healthy and having fun! Nikki serves on the SCOPE Associate Board and is devoted to giving all children, regardless of their socio-economic background, access to summer camp. Nikki is passionate about developing youth and believes summer camp has a profound impact on children – allowing them to gain confidence, independence and resilience.
For over 100 years, Lake Bryn Mawr Camp, located in Wayne County Pennsylvania, has been one of the premier all girls’ camps. It continues to thrive as a traditional 7 week sleepaway camp – while also housing two, more recently established, specialty camps for Dance & Horseback Riding.
Bryn Mawr Riding Camp (established in 2012) and Bryn Mawr Dance Camp (established in 2018) offer two-week focused programs. Open to dancers and riders of all levels – these camps offer a unique specialized experience with the resources and support of being under the Lake Bryn Mawr Camp umbrella, directed by Dan and Jane Kagan (veteran directors of over 30 years). Campers in both programs get to live all aspects of camp life & activities – making it a true camp experience while growing as dancers/riders.
What inspired the creations of both Bryn Mawr Dance & Bryn Mawr Riding Camps, and what core values continue to guide the camp experience today?
DANCE: Bryn Mawr Dance Camp was inspired by the desire to create a two-week sleepaway program that prioritizes dance for campers who might not be able to commit to a traditional seven-week session. In my roles as program director and parent liaison, I gained insight into the unique needs of young dancers seeking a true summer camp experience. Bringing this vision to life required dedication and new facilities, but the transformation came together seamlessly and has since enriched Bryn Mawr’s summer offerings. Today, the camp blends classic summer fun with intensive dance training, empowering campers to grow, take risks, and express themselves creatively – all within a supportive all-girls environment where each dancer can truly shine.
RIDING: Bryn Mawr Riding Camp was founded in 2012 for campers who want their entire summer experience to revolve around horses and riding. Built on the four core values of our traditional camp: Loyalty, Beauty, Merit, and Comradeship – these principles guide everything we do and create an unforgettable experience for our riders. Sharing the main campus, values, and resources of Bryn Mawr allows us to offer a specialized riding program while still embracing the spirit of a traditional camp. To enhance this experience, we acquired a beautiful 50-acre equestrian facility nearby, where campers live out the four core values as they grow as equestrians. At the heart of our camp is a deep respect for the horse – our sport wouldn’t exist without these incredible animals – and we ensure every camper learns and honors the fundamentals of horse care alongside their riding.
What kinds of friendships or social experiences do campers typically form here, and how does the camp foster a supportive, inclusive environment?
DANCE: At Bryn Mawr Dance Camp, a shared love of dance sparks friendships from day one. Campers quickly form meaningful connections through a mix of dance training and classic camp activities, from the first campfire to adventures on the ropes course. In our supportive all-girls environment, campers cheer each other on and focus on personal growth rather than competition. We nurture an inclusive community where every dancer finds a place to belong, celebrate achievements, and embrace new challenges, creating memories and friendships that last a lifetime.
RIDING: Bryn Mawr Riding Camp creates friendships like no other, built on a shared love of horses. Our campers can always start a conversation with “horses!” Campers, ages 11–15, participate in activities as a group while being sorted by riding level for lessons. This allows them to connect with peers their own age, as well as younger and older campers. No matter their background or riding experience, every camper is supported in reaching their riding goals, forming bonds that are strengthened both in the barn and across camp activities.
What sets Bryn Mawr Riding Camp apart from other riding camps? Are there any special traditions or programs you’re especially proud of?
DANCE: What sets Bryn Mawr Dance Camp apart is our unique blend of a traditional girls’ summer camp with a dedicated dance program. Campers enjoy daily dance instruction across a variety of styles while also taking part in classic camp activities: tubing, ceramics, ropes courses, campfires, and more. This combination allows dancers to train seriously while having fun, forming friendships, and making lasting memories beyond the studio. By combining the tradition of camp life with focused dance training, we enrich both the dancers’ skills and their overall camp experience.
RIDING: Several things set Bryn Mawr Riding Camp apart – first and foremost, our horses. Through wonderful partnerships with the University of Findlay (Ohio) and Centenary University (New Jersey), we bring in horses used on their intercollegiate riding teams during the year. These horses are exceptionally trained and experienced in hunters, jumpers, dressage, eventing, and more. Campers ride a different horse each day, gaining valuable experience with a variety of breeds, sizes, temperaments, and disciplines – each horse offering something unique to the rider.
Our facilities are equally impressive, featuring 40 stalls, an indoor arena, five outdoor arenas, trails, and a cross-country field. Being part of the traditional Lake Bryn Mawr Camp also allows our riders to enjoy classic camp activities – swimming, rock climbing, cooking, arts, and sports – blending a specialized riding experience with the best of summer camp fun.
For parents considering Bryn Mawr for their child, what should they know about how the camp supports growth both on and off the horse?
DANCE: Parents should know that Bryn Mawr Dance Camp fosters personal development in every aspect of camp life. On the dance floor, campers receive instruction tailored to their skill level, allowing them to grow technically in a supportive environment. Off the floor, they build confidence through adventure activities, develop teamwork and resilience in group settings, and gain independence by living in cabins and managing daily camp routines. The camp’s philosophy emphasizes character building, focusing not only on dance skills but also on nurturing self-confidence, resilience, and a supportive attitude toward others.
RIDING: At Bryn Mawr Riding Camp, we support all young equestrians, regardless of experience or background. Our program is designed so that riders of every level can fully participate in all activities and be fully immersed in the camp experience. Off the horse, our counselors are kind, attentive, and help campers form lasting connections. Above all, camp is about fun and creating memories that will last a lifetime.
How has the camp evolved over the years, and what exciting plans or innovations are in store for the coming summers?
DANCE: We’re excited to announce that Acrobatic Arts will be added to our class schedule for summer 2026! Our gymnastics facility is among the best in the camping industry, and we’ve spent the off-season creating new programming for both new and returning campers. We’ve also designed fresh evening activities while preserving our favorite dance camp traditions. This summer promises an elevated yet grounded experience that will challenge, inspire, and delight our dancers.
RIDING: I feel fortunate to have watched Bryn Mawr Riding Camp evolve over the years! I started as a counselor in 2011 and have been part of the camp since its very first summer. Now, in our 15th summer, it’s incredible to see how much we’ve grown. We’ve upgraded our facilities – adding two outdoor arenas, more stalls, improved our cross-country course, and expanded turnout pastures – and we’ve refined our program based on what campers love. New activities, like a three-day event combining cross-country, dressage, and show jumping, have become a favorite. Looking ahead, we’ll continue to enhance our facilities with new fencing and leveled arena footing, while introducing new riding exercises, on-the-ground lessons, and games that campers will enjoy.
If you had to describe Bryn Mawr Dance / Riding Camps in three words, what would they be – and why those words?
DANCE: Supportive – A community that celebrates every dancer, lifts each other up, and encourages growth at every step.
Expressive – A space to explore movement and creativity freely, build confidence, and become your best, most authentic self.
Fun – Where the joy of dance meets classic camp adventures, unforgettable moments, and friendships that last well beyond the summer.
RIDING: Well, the obvious answer is “horses, horses, and horses!” That’s what camp is really all about. On a deeper level, I’d say our core values are Kindness, Growth, and Friendship. Kindness comes first – both toward our horses and toward one another. Horseback riding can be a challenging sport for young women facing outside pressures, and we work to create a space where kindness guides every interaction. Growth happens for everyone at Bryn Mawr, as campers and staff alike learn valuable skills and life lessons. And Friendship – the bonds made at camp are truly special, whether it’s finding a best friend from across the world or forming a connection with a beloved horse.
About the Contributors:
Elizabeth Howard is a rare find and a big reason as to why Bryn Mawr Dance Camp stands above the rest. Liz has the unique combination of a lifetime of dance training, a deep dance performance resume, years of experience teaching dancers of all levels, and a passion for and background in summer camp leadership.
Emily Tyler, a certified CHA level 4 English riding instructor, has been part of the Bryn Mawr Riding Program since 2011. She spent two years as a riding instructor and cabin counselor, prior to being promoted to the Leadership Team in 2013. Emily teaches all levels, from the beginner to the more advanced rider, and has an excellent understanding of the emotional needs of girls. An integral part of Emily’s job is scheduling, where she matches campers to a horse and an instructor, allowing them to reach their full potential during lessons. Emily lives at Bryn Mawr year-round and is responsible for all staff hiring and training. Emily has been riding in the English hunter/jumper community for over 25 years, in addition to a year spent working directly with an equine veterinarian, during which she learned additional medical and horse care skills that she enjoys sharing with campers and staff. Additionally, she brings experience in event riding, dressage, and cross country. Emily graduated from Virginia Intermont College with a B.S. in Equine Studies. She actively competed with the Intercollegiate Horse Show Association as well as the Intercollegiate Dressage Association.
Every single year, there’s a shift.
Presidents Week ends and suddenly camp goes from a distant summer dream to something sitting front and center in your family calendar. Even if there’s snow outside your window, mentally, we’re all inching toward lakes, bunks, and Color War. And with that shift comes questions:
Are we behind?
What should we be doing right now?
How do we make this feel manageable?
Take a breath. You are right on time. Here’s how camp season naturally unfolds – month by month – and how to move through it with calm, clarity, and confidence.
End of February: Start Smart, Not Stressed
February is about quiet organization.
Print your packing list. Save it to your phone. Keep it accessible.
Returning camper? Try on last year’s gear. Make note of what didn’t come home.
First-time family? Book your camp outfitter appointment early – embroidery and labeling take time.
Nothing dramatic needs to happen this month. Just gentle forward motion.
March: Build Momentum
March is when excitement starts bubbling up.
We’ll be sending “We’ve Got Your Pack” tips to help you think through care packages, essentials, and those fun little extras that make camp feel personal.
This is also when conversations at home start to increase:
“Who will be in my bunk?”
“Will I like my counselor?”
“What if…?”
Let those conversations happen naturally. You don’t need to solve everything. You just need to create space for the questions.
April: The Emotional Prep Month
April is when camp feels real. And when something feels real, feelings follow. Excitement. Anticipation. Nervous energy. A little clinginess. A random “I don’t know if I want to go.”
All normal.
Campers can be homesick and happy. Brave and unsure. Ready and nervous. Sometimes within the same five minutes. April is about emotional readiness:
Talking about what independence looks like
Normalizing mixed emotions
Reinforcing confidence without dismissing nerves
It’s also a practical month to quietly stock up on essentials so May doesn’t feel overwhelming. Preparation isn’t just about packing – it’s about helping your child believe, “I can do this.”
May: Label Everything (Yes, Everything)
May is logistics month.
Label the socks.
Label the water bottle.
Label the hairbrush.
Then – and this is key – show your camper what’s going in the trunk. Confidence grows when kids understand what to expect. Walking through their packed items builds ownership and independence. This month can feel busy. Break it into small steps. One drawer at a time.
June: It’s Actually Happening
June hits differently. The trunks are out. The countdown is real. The energy shifts from prep to possibility.
This is when you might feel:
“How did we get here so fast?”
“Are they really ready?”
“Am I?”
Yes.
Because readiness isn’t about eliminating nerves. It’s about building tools to navigate them.
You’ve organized.
You’ve labeled.
You’ve talked.
You’ve prepared.
And now? It’s time for growth. Camp doesn’t just arrive in June. It builds slowly all year onward – through lists, conversations, and small steps that lead to big transformation. And the best part?
You don’t have to navigate any of it alone. We’ve got your pack.
About the contributor:
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