If you’ve ever searched for the perfect sleepaway camp or embarked on finding the right college, you know that both experiences are deeply personal, emotional, and surprisingly similar. Here’s how the two stack up – and what they teach us.
- It’s All About the Fit
Whether you’re choosing a spirited camp known for its legendary Color War or a liberal arts college that prioritizes small seminar-style classes, the goal is the same: finding the right vibe. Does your child prefer a highly structured environment or the freedom to explore? Do they thrive in a bustling, energetic atmosphere or a smaller, close-knit community? These preferences matter more than any ranking or reputation. - Tours Tell You More Than Websites Ever Could
Slick websites and glossy brochures are nice, but nothing compares to stepping onto the grounds. Whether it’s a virtual visit or an in-person tour, being there lets you sense the energy of the place. Are the campers genuinely smiling? Do students seem excited and engaged? These real-life glimpses can reveal more than any promotional material ever will. - There’s Always a “Gut Feeling”
You can’t always explain it, but you can feel it. Maybe it’s the view across a peaceful lake or the hum of conversation on a sunlit quad – sometimes, there’s just a spark that says, “This is the place.” That instinctive reaction is powerful and often a key part of the decision. - Parents Ask All the Questions – Kids Feel All the Feelings
Parents tend to zero in on the details: food accommodations, medical staff, and internet access. Meanwhile, kids quietly wonder if they’ll make friends, find their people, and feel like they belong. It’s a delicate balance of logistics and emotions, and both perspectives matter deeply. - FOMO Is Real – But So Is What’s Meant to Be
With social media and peer pressure, comparing choices and worrying about missing out is easy. But the truth is, what works for someone else might not be right for your child. The best place is where they can grow, feel accepted, and be themselves. - It’s a Milestone Moment
Choosing a sleepaway camp is often a child’s first step toward independence. It sets the stage for future transitions, like heading off to college. Both are monumental moments, not just for the kids, but for the entire family. They mark growth, change, and new chapters. - And Yes – There Will Be Tears
Expect a few tears from the anxiety of the search to the emotional goodbyes at drop-off. But also expect pride, resilience, and memories that last a lifetime. These transitions may be challenging, but they’re also beautiful.
Whether you’re packing a duffel bag for camp or decorating a dorm room, the journey is all about helping your child find a place where they can belong, grow, and shine. And really, isn’t that what every parent wants?
About the contributors:
Izzy Josephs is joining us this Spring as a Senior Options Intern from Scarsdale High School. She spent nine summers at Camp Canadensis, one on a Teen Tour to Greece + Italy, and one as a Scarsdale Rec Camp Counselor. Her favorite memories of those summers were making connections to people with different backgrounds and experiences. This fall, she is so excited to be heading off to the University of Michigan to study Sports Management.
Leila Saeed is also joining us this Spring as a Senior Options Intern from Scarsdale High School. She spent five summers at Mohawk Day Camp and participated in Pre-College Programs at Brown University and Emory University. Her favorite part of those experiences was building connections with her fellow campers and classmates over shared interests and activities. This fall, she is so excited to be heading off to the University of Michigan to study Psychology.